Pretty Is As Pretty Does...

If I had a dollar for every time I've heard my mama tell me "pretty is as pretty does" through the years I would be a rich lady.  I can remember standing in front of my mirror putting the final touches of makeup on, getting ready for a big moment (prom...) and hearing my mama tell me I was beautiful BUT "pretty is as pretty does".  As I got older, I thought I understood what she meant.  If I was nice to people, helped them in their time of need, went to church on Sunday, paid my bills on time, etc, then surely that would make me a good person and that goodness would shine.  All of those things are true, but the goodness or "pretty" comes from the inside and works it's way out.  It is important to be a good and kind person and help in our communities, and attend church.  However, the goodness comes from our Lord and Savior and He alone makes us "pretty".  When He is filling us up, we can't help but be beautiful people and His love for us in turn causes us to love others.  We aren't doing the good things for ourselves to make us "pretty", we are doing good so others might see Christ in us and hopefully will come to know Him as we do.  I'm thankful for my mama giving me those early pearls of wisdom and I'm thankful for my Savior for giving those pearls an even bigger meaning for me.  Our purpose on this earth is to love others and help them to meet Jesus.  When you think about His life here on this earth, that's what He did.  He loved.  Of course I like to put on my makeup and fix my hair and hear my husband tell me how pretty I am, but more importantly, I want to hear my Lord tell me that I'm pretty because He is proud of the person I am on the inside.  I hope ya'll have a great rest of your day and I hope I've been an encouragement to you today.  Love ya'll!

FABULOUS Thursday Night Supper

Hey ya'll I hope you're hungry because I have some FABULOUS recipes for you to try. Tonight for supper I fixed meatballs in mushroom gravy, braised cabbage with bacon, cream potatoes, and a wonderful hummingbird cake. I have some photos and the recipes for you...hope you enjoy as much as we did!


Meatballs in Mushroom Gravy

Ingredients for meatballs:

4 bread slices (I used white bread Walmart brand)
1/2 cup water
2 eggs
1 pound ground beef
1 small onion - chopped fine
1 cup Parmesan cheese
2 tablespoons dried parsley
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon dried oregano


Soak the 4 bread slices in 1/2 cup water.  Add 2 eggs and mix well.  The bread will be a gooey ball.  Add the ground beef, Parmesan cheese, parsley, oregano, onion, salt and pepper and mix together well.  This will require getting your hands dirty!  Form the mixture in whatever size meatballs you desire and place on a cookie sheet.  Brown in oven for 20 minutes at 300 degrees.

Ingredients for gravy:

2 cans cream of mushroom soup
1 cup milk

In a large pot, mix the cream of mushroom soup and milk.  Add the meatballs to the pot and simmer over med heat for 30 minutes.  Be sure to keep eye on it and don't let it stick!  I serve this with cream potatoes or you can use white rice.  Enjoy!

Braised Cabbage with Bacon

Dice 4 strips of bacon and fry on medium in a large pot.  Let the bacon cook about 10 minutes and add 1 teaspoon of minced garlic.  Cook these ingredients together for another 5 minutes, then add cabbage.  I add about 1/2 cup of water and let the cabbage cook for 25 minutes or until desired tenderness is reached.  Before I serve the cabbage, I add 1/2 stick of butter and stir.  Drain cabbage before serving and add salt and pepper to taste.  

Hummingbird Cake

Ingredients for the cake:

1 1/2 cup butter - softened

2 cups sugar

1 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

6 large eggs

2 1/4 cup all purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 cup whole buttermilk

2 cups mashed bananas (ripe)

2 cups finely chopped pecans

1 (8 1/2 ounce) can crushed pineapple - well drained

1.  Preheat oven 350 degrees - grease and flour 3 (9 inch) cake pans.

2.  In a large bowl combine butter, sugar, and vanilla.  Beat on medium speed with mixer until fluffy.  Add eggs one at a time, beating well after each one.

3.  In a small bowl, combine flour, baking soda, and salt.  Gradually add flour mixture to butter mixture alternating with buttermilk, beginning and ending with flour mixture.  Gently stir in banana, pecans, and pineapple.  Spoon batter into pans - bake for 30 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean.  Let cool in pans for 10 minutes then remove from pans and cool completely on wire racks.

4.  Frost cake.

Icing Ingredients:

2 (8 ounce) packages of cream cheese - softened

1/2 cup butter - softened

1 cup finely chopped toasted pecans

1 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon

1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg

7 cups confectioners sugar

In a large bowl beat cream cheese, butter, pecans, vanilla, cinnamon, and nutmeg at medium speed with mixer until creamy.  Gradually beat in confectioners sugar until smooth - be careful to not cover you and kitchen with sugar!!

ENJOY!

Self-Help Books Don't Work

Happy Wednesday ya'll! Hope your week is going just the way you want it to...if not, the weekend is almost here so smile!! I had to get out and about this morning to run some errands and decided to stop by Barnes and Noble. I was checking to see if the new Southern Lady magazine had been put out yet and score....it was there! On my way out, I always stop by the bargin books section to see if anything looks interesting. I could not help but notice the shelves were full of self-help books. Usually I am drawn to these books, I've bought so many of them I should be one FABULOUS lady by now. However, today I felt totally different. Each book I picked up and thumbed through basically said the very same thing. We spend so much money on how to clear our minds, how to lose weight, how to look and act pretty.....and none of them seem to make us into that FABULOUS person! The very words "self help" seem to say that this is something we can do for ourselves. If we read enough and do exactly what the book says, we will become the person we are searching for. As I have grown closer to the Lord and have spent some time in His word, I have come to understand that it is HIM who can transform us into the people we want to be. Without God, we are nothing and there isn't a book on the shelf that can change that. It's interesting that his "help" plan is free to us when there is so much money being made by all the gurus. We don't have to spend one cent but what a FABULOUS make-over it will be. You see that price was paid for us by Jesus and all we have to do is accept it. His word tells us clearly what we need to have a better life. I was talking with my husband about this today at lunch. I asked him why do people spend so much money and time searching for things to make them better? The authors of the books are people....just like you and me. His response to me was "people are not happy and they are searching for a way to be happy". I can tell you from personal experience, buying books will not give you the happiness you desire. I have been searching my whole life for that happiness and I can tell you my bookshelf is full. What has worked for me and yes, it will work for you too, is to get in God's word, pray, and listen for His voice. There, in the perfect will of God, you will find that happiness you are looking for. In bible study we are in II Corinthians and Paul is explaining that God will lift the veil from their eyes. I feel as though He has "lifted the veil" for me. I have been so tired in this life...always searching for something....I am renewed in His word. I hope you too will seek His face and find comfort, peace, and rest in His spirit. Thank you for reading today and I pray that I have been an encouragement to someone! Love you all!

Praise Him In The Hallway!

Hey ya'll! I hope you had a wonderful weekend and are ready for a FABULOUS week! I hit the ground running today. I've just now had a chance to sit down and get my things in order. My baby girl Hannah (she's 14 but will always be my baby girl) had a doctor's appointment first thing this morning. After I got her fed and checked in school, my baby boy Paul (he's 19 hehe) called and asked for some help. It seems he had been nominated to pick up the food for a preacher's conference today at church. Being as we are Southern and Baptist, ya'll know that involved a lot of food. It took us 3 trips to get it all unloaded from the car! By the time I got home it was dang near lunch time and my husband had his first guitar student coming at 1:00. I tell you....busy! Having worked a full-time job just about all of my adult life and never having the opportunity to be a "stay at home mom", I have been trying to figure out when I had time to work. I had ideas of getting my house all organized, coming up with fabulous new recipes to try and post, piddling around town for new thrift stores....hasn't happened. Just in case you haven't heard, I lost my job last week. I've been tying to put my life in perspective and decide what I need to do next. My loving family are asking "what is your plan"? I have no idea how to respond. When things happen to us in this life, we have to understand that God is in control and whatever the circumstance is, He knew about it before it happened. I don't think it's a considence that at this particular time in my life I lost my job - I know there is a bigger plan for me. Through the years I've thought about what I wanted to be when I grew up....nurse, teacher, all different kinds of things. I did not have the opportunity to finish my education. Life is about choices, and going through a door when it is open, but being patient and waiting when it closes. It's only been a week and I know I have time to be patient and wait on the Lord. I'm excited to see what He has in store for me. I took both of my children when they were just six weeks old to my mama every morning. At the time, I had a job that required me to be there early in the morning and many evenings it was 8:00 or later when I picked them up. I know how fortunate I was to have my mama and daddy take care of them during the day, but I never had that chance to be mama. Maybe the Lord is giving me time now to be able to sit in the pick up line at school, meet my son for a quick lunch between his classes and have supper on the table when my husband comes home from work. When things happen that we perceive as "bad", maybe we should take the time to just be patient and see what God has in store for us. Yes, there are still worries, financial struggles and more, but I believe that if we are in the perfect will of God, it will all work out. Thank you for reading today and I hope I have been an encouragement. Many of us are on the same journey, let's be excited about what He has in store for the future! I read something recently that said "when the door closes in front of us, praise Him in the hallway"....there's a whole lot of truth to that! Love ya'll.

Adventures With My Hubby

Good morning ya'll!!  It's Friday and the weekend is almost here!  Well.....our weekend starts on Friday so woohoo!  My husband Kevin teaches and thankfully this semester he has Friday's off.  We think of this as our little time together to venture out and see what we can find.  I decided some time ago that I wanted to put my spring/summer wardrobe together with pieces I picked up thrifting.  I am hooked.  The plan for today is to go out and take some pictures of eastern NC and find some new thrift stores. Really, I just enjoy being able to hang out with my husband. We have the best time piddling around and we are so proud of ourselves when we come across "a good find"!    It's so important to spend time with your special someone, and I'm so very blessed that I have him in my life. I posted a cute photo on my Facebook page today of a couple dancing in the water, acting the fool.  How cute they are holding hands and I can hear them laughing and being happy.  We have to take those moments we are given and not use them up by arguing about things that don't matter anyway, or being angry about something. Life is short and our time together is limited.....laugh with each other and you will be able to cry with other.  I came across a card when I was out Valentine shopping and the words are so true.  I hope you all have a great Friday and a wonderful weekend.  Find some time to spend with your love.....you don't know how long you have them.  Love you all!

"I love the way you know me and things about me that nobody else knows.  The way you can tell when I want to talk before I even whisper a word.  The way you know when to let me go or pull me close, and how you make me laugh when I feel like I'm losing my mind.  I love the way you keep my secrets safe and my dreams alive.  I love the way it feels to be known and loved by you just as I am.  But most of all, I love the beautiful way your love has changed my life."

Recipes From The Shoe Department

My mama worked in the shoe department at Brody's for 20 years.  If you are from "around here" you know that Brody's was an iconic department store in Greenville for many years.  It was the place to go for the well dressed woman, teenage girl, and little tots as well.  The ladies in the shoe department were a close group who debated the world topics of the time, stayed abreast of current fashion trends, raised their families, but most importantly, shared their recipes!  I will be sharing more about these FABULOUS ladies,  but for today I want to share one of my favorite recipes that became a tradition in our house thanks to Margie.  I am 42 years old and I still have no idea who " Margie" is,  but this recipe came to my mama through the ladies of the shoe department.  This recipe is called Margie's Cookie and I promise after 1 bite you will be hooked!  Please let me know if you give them a try and how you liked them!  Hope ya'll have a great day and you'll be hearing more about our ladies!

Margie's Cookies

For this recipe you will need the following:

• 1 cup white sugar
• 1 cup light brown sugar
• 3 cups flour
• 1 cup butter-flavored Crisco
• 2 eggs
• 1 Tbs vanilla
• 1 tsp baking soda
• 1 cup pecans

Cream the sugars and butter together, add eggs. When you have these mixed together, add your other ingredients.  Roll this mixture into cookie roll, wrap in waxed paper, followed by foil, and then freeze.  It is much easier to cut the rolls into individual cookies to bake if it is firm.  When you get ready to bake, set oven to 350 degrees on put cookies on a greased cookie sheet.  Keep a close eye on them, I usually bake for about 30 minutes or so.  I promise they will melt in your mouth!

Reflections on a rainy, Monday morning....

Good morning everyone!  It's a rainy, Monday morning at my house.  I just love rainy days!  As I was sitting at the kitchen table this morning, having a cup of coffee and thinking about about how my day needed to go, I noticed a stately, majestic looking hawk sitting on my mailbox.  I immediately reached for my camera and went out in the rain to try and snap a picture.  Even though I was so careful, he looked at me, gracefully flapped his wings and flew on to his next destination.  Needless to say, no picture, but it made me think about how many times that beautiful bird has come to my house to sit on my mailbox and I never noticed.  As the hawk flew away, my attention was caught by two male cardinals frantically vying for the attention of a female cardinal.  Bless her heart, everywhere she went, they went.  She seemed exhausted trying to find a branch in a tree to be alone and have a little peace.  I can totally relate with this sweet little bird.  Most likely she will soon be laying her eggs and perhaps she is out looking for a safe, dry place to make her nest.  Standing on the porch, watching, and listening I am amazed at the beauty of the sights and sounds all around me.  The rain falling, the birds tweeting, and the frogs even joining in. Over the last 14 months, I have suffered though some real life struggles.  This past Thursday, once again I found myself faced with yet another hurdle.  A verse just came to me as I'm writing....Psalms 46:10 "Be still, and KNOW that I am God" .  I fell like the Lord led me to the beauty of His creation to tell me to stop worrying and see that He has done and to watch Him accomplish a work in me which none BUT He can do.  I hope these words will be an encouragement to you today and if you, like me, are carrying a burden, I pray that you will take it to the Lord and let Him work it out.
Have a happy Monday!
Sabrina